Why is it that the majority of people who have no life purpose deprecate successful people? Is it because they are content drift through their lives day to day without any real purpose or plan?
They look at their lives and tell themselves that although they wish for a better life and work hard at their day jobs they just do not get the breaks, the bosses were just in the right place at the right time.
Do you ever feel as if you have no real life purpose or life plan?
Do you feel as if life is passing you by?
Could it be your life plan is to have money left over at the end of the month instead of month left over at the end of your money?
I do not advocate that people live in the past to discover what sort of life purpose you should have, but just for this exercise I am going to suggest that you are driving your car and I am giving you permission to look in your rear view mirror to see what is behind you, that is not the same as looking back is it?
In your childhood you were told how to behave by well meaning parents and guardians but how they told you to behave effects your life as it is today. Don’t do that is frequently said to children without thought of how it will imapct on their future lives!;’Chidren should be seen and not heard’;'You cannot do that’;'Don’t try and get above your station’. It is these words that have set up your life today for your life is the sum total of your thoughts up to today.
You have been told that setting goals is the key to a better life full of choices, but perhaps you have not been told how to set them, so many people who try to set goals do so in a language familiar with their lives up until now. That is they say ‘I do not want ……’.
It is so easy to recall unsuccessful events in your past life and these prevent you from making progress. Your subconcious mind can only draw on past experiences when you meet a new experience today. Luckily you can change the input by concentrating on why you can do something it is called, “Feel the Fear and do it Anyway!”. Negative words will quickly find negative situations to relate to and therefore act on, so when you say poor, your subconscious can quickly find a situation to relate to the word poor in your experiece of life.
How can you get around this?
Fortunately it is quite easy to do. Setting goals in the present tense, with purpose, even if you are thinking in the future will create life choices. The only way you can increase say your income is to establish a goal phrased in the present tense, so if you want to earn $8,000 per month you would phrase it, “I am earning $8,000 per month.”. It matters not where the money is coming from if you write this down and read it out at every opportunity throughout your day at least four times you will earn $8,000 per month. It will never happen unless YOU act on it, ‘If it is to be it is up to me’.
You cannot change the past it is gone forever, so is the second it took you to read the past words. The future is just that, it can only be effected by what you do today at this moment, this is your moment of power. Your past life need not be your future life, if you take action now to change it.
Look at people who earn what you wnat to earn, copy thier behaviour and work ethic, speak positive language and soon they will be your peer group and you will earn as they earn. Listen to your present peer group, what they say and how they say it, you cannot afford to mix with negative people if you are to grow in your life.
The only thing that you can effect is NOW! The past is gone forever the future is yet to come, now is the present, choose to take action now to change your future!
